Dating shy quiet guy
What about the guy who’s smart enough to know that nothing really bad can happen, but he still feels that overwhelming anxiety that stops him every time?
Eventually I realized most of the people typing this stuff up had never been shy around girls themselves, they had just thrown up a webpage to make some quick money.
Confidence and personality are more attractive than physical appearance to most girls.
Your looks don’t matter nearly as much as you think they do. All the good looking girls are around the confident, popular, charismatic guys.
They become infatuated with a girl just based on how she looks from a distance.
They haven’t even talked to her yet, yet they start to imagine a future together with her.
If you get a strong physical feeling of anxiety when you think of talking to a girl you like, or you feel a powerful, paralyzing hesitation when you want to approach or ask out a girl, then this post is for you.
This makes it IMPOSSIBLE for you to be confident around her, because you think she is more valuable.
And if you are lacking confidence and can’t even talk to her normally, then you have no chance of attracting her and forming a relationship.
On the other hand, many of the good looking guys who are shy are stuck alone or with a girl they’re not really attracted to. So the most important thing is to cut out any thoughts that sabotage your confidence or make you inhibited.
This means to notice when you are having self-defeating thought patterns and stop them in their tracks.